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No Ordinary Time…

This is the time of year where I think a lot of us feel like crawling back under the covers and letting the world spin without us. If we’re not fortunate enough to be on some luxury cruise in a tropical climate, many of us are living in the dead of winter…and when you’re sick things are just that much worse. Add to that taking down the Christmas tree (sigh) and the present seems a little bleak…and it’s tough to look ahead to the future. It’s also the time the Church calls “ordinary time.”

But I think this is the exact time when we need to be spiritual warriors…to put on our “armor” of Christ and to march boldly ahead to pursue God’s will and purpose He has placed on our hearts, to not give up, to be extraordinary. Recently I’ve tried meditating, spending time with God when I’m feeling down, and I believe He’s spoken to me, saying “get up and dust yourself off and get out there and continue what I started in you.” I also believe I heard Him say, “forget the mistakes and failures of the past year or even yesterday (in other words get over myself), be obedient (take responsibility for my choices and actions) and carry out my calling…and if you do it for me, I will help you bring it to pass.” Wow. I need to forget about my setbacks and frustrations and stop complaining my dreams aren’t happening fast enough and most importantly, BELIEVE that all things are possible with God. Oh, and add to that I need to be grateful for everything I am and have right here and now before I can accept more blessings.

So during this ordinary time…when we just heard readings in Mass of how God spoke to Samuel, calling Him to be a prophet (it took three tries on God’s part but luckily Samuel knew who it was the third time thanks to his elder, Eli), and how Jesus called his apostles, (asking them, ‘What are you looking for?’) we can rest assured this is no ordinary time, God is calling us to suit up and show up ready for battle (against the enemy, Satan, who tries to keep us down through self-pity and sloth), to take action, and to march ahead to claim His victory and experience our rewards. I pray we all have the faith, willingness and courage to be extraordinary today!

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Ending…and Beginning Again

Advent is upon us…are you ready? Not only ready for Christmas, but ready for the “new year”? The church’s new year began with the first day of advent yesterday of course…and it made me pause and reflect on where this past year has taken me…with relationships, my career as an author, speaker and book coach, and with my personal growth in all areas (physical, mental and spiritual). I usually take stock of all of this at the end of the calendar year, but I think it’s better to do it now, before the rush of the holiday season and the first of the New Year are upon me.

Besides looking ahead to next year and all I want to accomplish, I find I am looking back over this past year a little harder than usual – doing an in-depth inventory – to see if I met the goals I set last year. And I see a few places where I hit the mark and a few places where I fell short. Without trying to beat myself up too much, I see I fell short when it came to selling more books, getting more book coaching clients, making more money and losing weight; and I see I did a pretty good job when it came to strengthening some relationships with a few family members and friends, growing in my faith in God, and finding more peace and joy in my life. I know the end result is to have balance – and usually when I focus on those first few, the latter few suffer and vice versa. (The year before I sold more books, made more money and lost weight…but I lost my joy and peace and felt like that negatively affected a few relationships in the process!)

So how to find balance in the coming year? I am planning to use this season of Advent to take a deep breath, plan ahead, and focus on balance…because I believe that we can achieve whatever we put our minds and hearts into. It takes more than wishing or hoping…it takes preparing. If we didn’t prepare for Christmas (ie., shop, decorate, etc.) we  wouldn’t be ready when it arrived. The same can be said for Christ…and for life. So in addition to all of the holiday hustle, I’m planning to meditate more, set a plan in place NOW for all of the important areas of my life, and then pray about it, meeting God “half way” as they say.

Happy Advent and Happy (Liturgical) New Year!  I hope you and I can both be ready for all God has in store for us!

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Are You Thankful for You?

It is the season for giving thanks…and lately I haven’t been feeling it. People have let me down recently. I’ve been frustrated with my progress in my career. I’ve been feeling a bit anxious about which way to turn.

This morning I read in one of my daily inspirational readers that I need to learn to become at peace with myself: “I wake up every morning and go to sleep with myself every night. I spend 24 hours a day with that one person, so it is important that I’m at least tolerable if not downright enjoyable company. I can’t be that person when I’m overly controlled by guilt, fear and resentment and negligibly aware of my gifts and talents…” (Hope for Today/Al Anon Family Groups).

It may seem egotistical at first, but if we really think about it, we need to be grateful for who we are, exactly as we are – because God created us in His Image and Likeness – with dreams, desires, gifts and talents. Sometimes we’re not sure which path to take.  I know I’m a good writer and can help others with that gift and talent, both through my books and book coaching (helping others through editing, publishing and marketing services). It’s hard work, not always fruitful and sometimes even daunting…but as we heard in yesterday’s Gospel at Mass, we need to invest our talents to become “good and faithful servants,” and not just bury them like the “lazy, wicked servant.” And all we can do is take things one day at a time and try to know and follow God’s will…and stay positive in the hope and faith that “all things work together for good to those who love God and are called according to His purpose. (Romans 8:28 – my favorite Bible passage).

God also gives us people in our lives – both negative and positive – to help us grow, and we need to be thankful for all of them as well (sometimes it’s tough when people rub us the wrong way!)  And while we can’t rely solely on another person for our own happiness, we need to surround ourselves with people who reflect back to us our goodness,  and who encourage us to fully use our gifts and talents, even (and especially) through the tough times, and let the rest go.

Today, Lord, help me to be thankful for who you made me to be and the people you put in my life who help me be my best self.

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Weaknesses and Strengths…

In my latest book writing class I’m teaching at my local college, I have stressed the importance of “character arc,” or how a character (usually the main one or protagonist) grows or changes through the story line or plot of the novel. It’s what typically elevates a book to be really great. Most characters are not (or at least should not) be perfect in the beginning of the book…nor should they be all bad either (or we won’t like them and thus, won’t care about them enough to keep reading about them.) They usually have a mix of strengths and weaknesses, although their character flaws may be most evident in the beginning of the book and we, the readers, usually care enough about them that we end up rooting for them to discover their strengths, usually in the midst of challenges, hardships or crises.

I think the same is true of each of us…over the days and years of our lives we gradually come to discover our own character flaws, our strengths and our weaknesses, and if we’re on the right spiritual path (of progress) we try to overcome our weaknesses and hone our strengths. Just like a business does a “SWOT” analysis (asking what its Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Threats are in order to grow), we should check in with ourselves occasionally or do an inventory and see where we stand. Otherwise, we stay still and stagnant. I believe we need to first become aware of our weaknesses and “threats” (temptations and people or things that push our buttons) and also our strengths and “opportunities” (usually ways to use them to help others). Once we’re aware of them, we can take action to minimize our weaknesses and maximize or take advantage of our strengths.

Why bother? Why not just “go with the flow” and not do so much work on ourselves? Just like a business, we as individuals profit from taking inventory, awareness and action, and the growth that results. I usually become acutely aware of my weaknesses when I’m feeling particularly anxious, irritable or discontent. My symptoms usually include regret (the “shoulda, coulda, woulda” syndrome where I wish I could change something in the recent past), indecisiveness – even when it comes to little things, and/or feeling the “blues,” like I usually do around this time of year when the air gets colder and I know summer is over and winter is around the bend. I then start to see or experience my weaknesses…of procrastination, its evil antithesis impatience, and avoidance or its counterpart – being scattered or unfocused. If left to fester, these weaknesses can cause a downward spiral that leads to depression and even despair – not what God wants for me by far. Instead, if I take action and focus on my strengths – not an easy task for most of us – I can lift my mood and usually become grateful and joyful once more, which makes me more productive.

What are your weaknesses and strengths? In addition to my talents (what I’m good at, or my writing and speaking abilities), my strengths are my positiveness (seeing the silver lining), my spirit of adventure, and my inquisitive nature or curiosity. I can use these to help others to in turn be more positive, find their strengths and discover their own joy – as well as have fun! For example, yesterday was a cold and rainy day but we had already picked it for my grandkids to visit. I was wishing we had picked the day before (already taken by another set of grandparents) which was warm and sunny. But, putting my weaknesses aside and capitalizing on my strengths, I held an indoor scavenger hunt for Halloween treats, we carved a big pumpkin, and had brunch together…and had a lot of fun!

God, help me to turn to you in my weaknesses for Your strength, and to use the gifts, talents and strengths you put in me to help others to see and use theirs.

 

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RSVP – Now!

I recently missed a deadline of an invitation to speak at a writers’ conference  next year for which I really wanted to do a workshop presentation; I had gotten an email about applying to speak at the conference and then it slipped my mind and when I remembered to respond, it was too late. I even tried to cajole my way in and while the conference chair was really nice about it (saying ‘if it was up to me, I’d still let you in, I really wish I could, but I can’t’) I had to accept that it was too late and letting me in would simply be unfair to the other speaking applicants. (I am starting to learn humility a little bit more in practicing acceptance – the old me would have kept badgering her expecting a different answer!)

Is there something important that you missed because you failed to respond, reply, RSVP? Do you procrastinate on responding to an invitation because you’re thinking something better on that date might come along…or overlook an invitation or event because you’re too busy…and then when you realize you don’t want to miss it, you’ve missed the RSVP deadline and it’s too late? Imagine receiving the ultimate invitation – to a party you wouldn’t miss for the world, thrown by your closest friend – and somehow, you procrastinated or were too busy to RSVP – and you missed it? You would probably feel sick to your stomach with regret so deep it may never go away the rest of your life. I think that’s the kind of “party” God is inviting us to by asking us to join Him in the kingdom of heaven one day – and many of us have ignored the invitation – we have either not yet RSVP’d, or are putting our response off, or are just too busy to bother with a reply right now. And none of us knows when our “deadline” will be – how much time we have left here on earth.

In telling one of His parables on the kingdom of heaven in which He likened it to a wedding feast a father throws for his son, Jesus said that many were originally invited but “some ignored the invitation and went away, one to his farm, another to his business.” Some of those invited actually beat and killed the servants (prophets) who were extending the invitation. Then the father (God) told his servants to go out in the streets and invite “whomever you find” (which would be all of us.) “The servants went out into the streets and gathered all they found, bad and good alike, and the hall was filled with guests.” But apparently one of the guests wasn’t “dressed in a wedding garment” (meaning he wasn’t prepared to be there) and the king cast him out. “Many are invited, but few are chosen,” Jesus concludes.

I believe we need to RSVP each and every day to the invitation to be with God, prepare ourselves for entry to His kingdom, and not ignore His messengers (whoever or however they present themselves). We don’t know when the party will be, but we better be ready “dressed” for the occasion!

 

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Be positive when posting…

What would happen if, for just one day, everyone in the world would use nothing but kind words of encouragement, promoting hope, harmony and peace and perhaps even change, only in a positive way? On this same date two years ago I was blasted by several individuals on social media in response to a blog I posted referring to Christopher Columbus discovering America and having courage to cross the ocean – and how I could relate to feeling bold and adventurous, yet also a little nervous in embarking on my author career, just like I feel every time I dive into the ocean and swim in October (which I did again this past weekend – and as always it’s a little bit colder than summer but still a joyful and exhilarating experience!) These individuals called me all kinds of nasty names asking how dare I talk about Columbus in a positive way when (they said) he was a rapist and murderer. (Of course I didn’t know any of that nor have I done any research to deny or confirm it since it was just a post about being courageous.) I was appalled at their language, felt hurt by their comments and quickly deleted them – and left my blog as is. But it gave me pause today as I remembered it as if it happened today.

I think there is a time and place for taking a stand and social media usually isn’t the best venue…and certainly not doing so with harsh, ugly or mean words against others. I believe most of the time it’s best, as our mothers used to say, that “If you can’t say anything nice don’t say anything at all.” Or perhaps if you feel the absolute need to stand up for something, do so with positive, kind verbiage versus negative language that can put down another person or people, leaving harm in its wake. Or as St. Paul wisely said in his letter to the Philippians (read at yesterday’s Mass): “Have no anxiety at all, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God. Then the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things…Then the God of peace will be with you.”

I think St. Paul would have told us today let the President and the government govern, don’t go looking for or stirring up trouble or causing drama or chaos, be kind and pray to God (not spout off on social media). And then you will have peace.  And so might others!

 

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The next right thing…

Some mornings (especially Monday mornings after a very hectic weekend) I still wake up with some anxiety about the week ahead, how to accomplish everything I have put on my list, asking ‘what are my priorities?’ and ‘what is God’s Will’ in the scheme of things? Add to the feeling of being overwhelmed a sense of uncertainty, doubt, confusion – and if you’re feeling under the weather (or the weather isn’t that great) – and you may have a recipe for becoming almost paralyzed. If you’re an entrepreneur or own your own business or work on your own from home you can probably especially identify with this feeling.  Sometimes you may just want to pull the covers over your head! But that’s when I tell myself to just ‘do the next right thing.’ For me, it was writing this blog when I had no idea what to write!

When faced with any or all of these feelings, I tell myself to just “do the next right thing.” That means doing the thing right in front of you…and then doing the next and the next…and pretty soon you’ve gone through the day and actually achieved something no matter how small and maybe even made a difference in your life or someone else’s. I learned this strategy or tactic in a 12-Step recovery program. The following “list” or poem titled “Just for Today” (often handed out on bookmarks in this same program) tends to help as well:

1. Just for Today, I will try to live through this day only, and not tackle my whole life-problem at once. I can do some things for twelve hours that would appall me if I felt I had to keep them up for a lifetime.

2. Just for Today, I will be Happy. This assumes that what Abraham Lincoln said is true, that “most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Happiness is from Within; it is not a matter of Externals.

3. Just for Today, I will Adjust myself to what Is, and not try to Adjust everything to my own desires. I will take my family, my business, and my luck as they come, and fit myself to them.

4. Just for Today, I will take care of my Body. I will exercise it, care for it, and nourish it, and not abuse it nor neglect it; so that it will be a perfect machine for my will.

5. Just for Today, I will try to strengthen my mind, I will study. I will learn something useful, I will not be a mental loafer all day. I will read something that requires effort, though and concentration.

6. Just for Today, I will exercise my Soul. In three ways, to wit:

(a) I will do somebody a good turn and not get found out. If anybody knows of it, it will not count.

(b) I will do at least two things I don’t want to do, as William James suggests just for exercise.

(c) I will not show any one that my feelings are hurt. They may be hurt, but Today I will not show it.

7. Just for To-day, I will be agreeable. I will look as well as I can, dress as becomingly as possible,  talk low,  act courteously, be liberal with flattery, criticize not one bit  nor find fault with anything, and not try to regulate nor improve anybody.

8. Just for Today, I will have a Program. I will write down just what I expect to do every hour. I may not follow it exactly, but I’ll have it. It will save me from the two pests Hurry and Indecision.

9. Just for Today, I will have a quiet half hour, all by myself, and relax. During this half hour, some time, I will think of God, so as to get a little more perspective to my life.

10. Just for Today, I will be Unafraid. Especially I will not be afraid to be Happy, to enjoy what is Beautiful, to love and to believe that those I love love me.

This Bible verse also comes to mind: “What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.” (James 2: 14-17)

None of us really knows what God’s Plan is for the rest of our lives (and perhaps it’s best that way!) But just for today we can perhaps discern that the Will of God is to just do the next right thing, whatever comes to mind – whether it’s taking a walk, doing the dishes, contacting a friend, doing a task we’ve been putting off or just doing the best we can at the job before us – and then when you add today to your yesterdays and do the same thing tomorrow, pretty soon your days will hopefully add up to fulfilling God’s Plan for you!

 

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